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Friday, May 20, 2011

Goodness in Return of Ill-Treatment


Goodness in Return of Ill-Treatment

A man complained to Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.) about his relatives. Imam (a.s.) said,
"Swallow your anger and behave nicely with your relatives."

The man said, "My relatives give me all sorts of troubles and there is hardly any cruelty they have not committed upon me."

The Imam (a.s.) told him,
"Do you also want to cut off relation with them? If you also become like them, then Allah will never have mercy for you."

Allama Majlisi (r.a.) says, "If one behaves kindly to the relatives who are bad, they would at one time or the other regret their behaviour. 

Then the Mercy of Allah will be upon both of them. If the ill-behaved relatives do not rectify their ways then at least the Mercy of Allah will be upon the one who continues kindness to them (the relatives).

It is very clear to us that we must not sever relations even with those relatives who are unkind to us and who want to cut off the relationships.

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) says:
"Do not sever relation with your kindered even if they cut off relations with you."
(Al Kafi)


Imam Mohammed Baqir (a.s.) : The Splitter of knowledge

Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) states:
"There are three sins whose punishment has to be borne in this world itself: The first is injustice, the second is breaking of relationships and the third is false oath."

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Seventh Greater Sin QAT-E-RAHMI (Breaking up relations)

Breaking up relations

The seventh Greater Sin is the breaking up of relations with one's kith and kin. This is clearly verified by Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.) as well as Imam Musa al-Kazim (a.s.), Imam Ali ar-Reza (a.s.) and Imam Muhammad al-Taqi (a.s.). The Quran has also decreed Hell-fire and the curse of Allah upon those who cut off ties with their relatives.

Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.) says:
"Beware of those who cut off relations because I have found them cursed thrice in the Quran."

1) Surah Baqarah, Ayat No.27
"Whoever break the covenant of Allah after its confirmation and cut asunder what Allah has ordered to be joined, and make mischief in the land, these it is that are the losers."
In the Quranic terminology when the word Khaasir (loser) is used it denotes the one who is to be in loss, or rather the one who is cursed.

2) Surah Raad, Ayat No.25
"And those who break the covenant of Allah after its confirmation and cut asunder which Allah has ordered to be joined and make mischief in the land; (as for) those, upon them shall be curse and they shall have the evil (issue) of the abode."

3) Surah Muhammad, Ayat No.22-23
"But if you held command, you were sure to make mischief in the land and cut off the ties of kinship. Those it is whom Allah has cursed, so He has made them deaf and blinded their eyes."

The Denouncement of "Cutting Off Kinship Ties" in the Traditions

Numerous traditions have reached us in this regard.

A few of these reports are quoted here:

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) states:
There is destruction in enmity, especially with the relatives. I do not mean the destruction of the law but rather the destruction of the religion. (Enmity among people not only harms the hair and the body, but it also destroys one's religion.
(Al Kafi, Chapter of Qate-Rahem)

Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.) says:
"Protect yourself from 'Haliqa' for it destroys the people." The narrator asked "What is 'Haliqa'", Imam replied, "To sever relations."


Allah, The Greatest, The Merciful and The Powerfull

The Worst Deed in the Eyes of Allah 

A man approached the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) and enquired, "What is the worst deed in the eyes of Allah?"

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) replied,

"To attribute partners to Allah."

The man then asked, "After this which is the worst sin?"

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) said:

"To sever relations".

After this the same person asked, "After this which is the worst sin?"

The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) replied:

"To enjoin the evil and to forbid the good (deeds)."


Sipah e Mahdi (a.t.f.s.)

Monday, May 16, 2011

Khaak-e-Shefa: The Dust with Healing Powers – Part I & II

 

Khaak-e-Shefa: The Dust with Healing Powers – Part II

 From where to acquire the dust?
A common question regarding the dust is – which part of Karbala has the miraculous dust? There are several traditions in this regard. Some traditions declare that the dust can be acquired:
a. From the sacred grave of Imam (a.s.).
b. Upto a distance of 70 yards from the grave.
c. Upto 70 feet from the grave.
d. Upto 1 mile from the grave.
e. Upto 4 miles from the grave.
f. Upto 10  miles from the grave.
g. Upto 5 farsakh from all 4 directions of the grave.
h. Upto 25 yards from the direction of the feet of Imam Husain (a.s.), 25 yards from Imam’s (a.s.) face, 25 yards from Imam’s (a.s.) back and 25 yards from Imam’s (a.s.) side.
i. Upto 20 yards from all 4 sides.  
These traditions though apparently in conflict, do not contradict each other in reality. The probable reason being that the dust of Karbala does not have n independent position that merits greatness and distinction. In reality, the dust draws its merit and excellence from the blood of the martyrs of Karbala . Since the blood of the martyrs was spilled all over the battlefield, the dust in several parts of Karbala possesses these glorious merits and distinctions  Moreover, the closer the dust is to the sacred grave of Imam Husain (a.s.), the greater will be its powers and effects. It is obvious that that part of Karbala that has in it the grave of Imam (a.s.) is superior to all other parts.  
Jibraeel (a.s.) Presents the Dust to the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.)
One of the important traits of this dust is that it has always remained in pure hands and has been safeguarded with respect and honor.  Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.) narrates, ‘Once the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) was in Janabe Umme Salma’s house. At that moment, Imam Husain (a.s.) entered the house. Even Jibraeel (a.s.) was present over there. Jibraeel (a.s.) told the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.), ‘Your nation will slay this son of yours (Imam Husain (a.s.)).’
The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) said, ‘Show me the dust where he will be martyred and his blood spilled. Jibraeel (a.s.) presented a fistful of dust to the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.). The dust was of red colour.’
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 60, tradition3)
 In another tradition it is mentioned that every angel who used to descend in the presence of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) would offer his condolences on the martyrdom of Imam Husain (a.s.). He would also inform the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) about the land of Imam ’s (a.s.) martyrdom and would
present the dust of the land where Imam (a.s.) would be slain mercilessly.’ (Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 61)
 In one tradition it is revealed that the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) gave this sacred dust to Janabe Umme Salma (r.a.).
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 60, tradition 4)
 These incidents underline the importance of this dust and its amazing merits. More importantly they also serve to emphasize the importance of preserving this dust and inhaling its fragrance, as this was the Sunnat (tradition) of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.). Then those who counter this distinction accorded to the dust and ridicule it instead of honouring it are in
fact directly opposing the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) and Jibraeel (a.s.)! Butthen how can those who participated in the gruesome murder of Imam Husain (a.s.) and/or were satisfied with it ever respect this sacred dust! If the glorious personality of the Chief of Martyrs (a.s.) himself was not honored, what hope is there of his sacred dust being revered!
The Etiquette of Acquiring the Dust
The dust of Karbala is by no means some ordinary dust that one can simply pick up and use. There are some etiquette (aadaab) specified in traditions for picking up the dust and preserving it. A person told Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.), ‘I heard you mention that the dust from the sacred shrine of Imam Husain (a.s.) is a cure for every ailment. But I have used it and found no benefit in its use.’ Imam (a.s.) replied,’There are some etiquette for acquiring and using this dust.One who does not adhere to them, will find the dust of no use.’
(Beharul Anwaar, vol. 101 p. 135)
There are several traditions in this regard along with numerous supplications. We have mentioned just two in the following paragraphs.
1. Janabe Abu Hamza Samali (r.a.) narrates from Imam Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.), ‘When you wish to pick the dust from Imam Husain’s (a.s.) sacred shrine, recite Surah Hamd, Surah Falaq, Surah Naas, Surah Tauheed, Surah Qadr, Surah Yasin, Ayatul Kursi. Then recite this supplication
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 283-84, tradition 12)
 For conciseness, we have not mentioned the translation of this supplication. The supplication itself has many points worth reflecting upon, which give us some idea of the importance of Imam Husain (a.s.) and the dust of his grave.
2. A person approached Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.) and complained, ‘I am often very sick and am afflicted by various types of diseases. I have supplicated Allah several times with many an invocation but to no avail. Imam (a.s.) replied, ‘Why don’t you use the dust of Imam Husain’s (a.s.) shrine?There is a cure to every ailment and a security from every fear. When you wish to use this dust, then recite:
 ‘O Allah! I beseech you by the right of this dust and by the right of the angel (a.s.) who picked the dust, and by the right of the Prophet(s.a.w.a.) who kept this with himself and by the right of the successor (wasi) who rests in it, send blessings on Muhammad and his progeny (s.a.w.a.). Make this dust for me a cure for every ailment and a security for every fear.’
 Then Imam (a.s.) explained,
‘The angel who picked this dust is Jibraeel (a.s.), who thenshowed this to the Prophet (s.a.w.a.) and informed him (s.a.w.a.) that it was the dust from the grave of his beloved son, who would ultimately be martyred by his nation. The Prophet (s.a.w.a.) who kept this dust is Muhammad Mustafa (s.a.w.a.). The successor who is resting in it is Imam Husain (a.s.).’
 The narrator asked, ‘I appreciate that the dust is a cure for every ailment but how is it a security against every fear?’ 
Imam (a.s.) informed,’If you fear a king or any other tyrant, keep this sacred
dust with you and recite this supplication The narrator informs that I did exactly as Imam (a.s.) instructed me. Consequently, I was cured completely from all ailments and was secure from every fear. Thereafter, I never faced any problem.’
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 282-83, tradition 10)
The Etiquette of Using the Dust
We find that the method of acquiring and consuming Khake Shifa is detailed in narrations and various supplications have been specified for this purpose. For brevity, we rely on just one narration.
 It is narrated from Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.) that, ‘The earth of the pure and holy grave of Imam Husain (a.s.) is a pure and blessed musk. For those who consume it from among our Shias, it is a cure for every ailment, and if our enemy uses it then he will melt the way fat melts, when you intend to consume that pure earth recite the following supplication
(Mustadrakul Wasail, vol. 10pg 339-40 tradition 2; New edition of Makarimul Akhlaq p.189; Beharul Anwar,vol. 101, p. 23, tradition 60)
 Besides the above another short supplication to be recited at the time of using Khake Shifa is as follows
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 284,tradition 2)
 There are several more detailed manners that are narrated under the above subject. It is evident from the above supplications themselves that this blessed earth has a cure for the ailments, liberation from fear along with beneficial knowledge and abundant sustenance. 
The Measure to be Used
Traditions say that Khake Shifa should be used in quantity of the size of a gram seed (chana). And after eating it one should drink water in slow sips.
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 286) 
Eminent jurists, in the light of traditions, declare that consuming earth is prohibited. Yet they unanimously hold that using the sacred earth of the holy grave of Imam Husain (a.s.) is permitted. (We have already mentioned the discussion regarding the area referred). In fact it is recommended that this earth be given to the child at the time of its birth and also this sacred earth be placed in the grave.  
Some Incidents
1. Dust transforms into blood Said b. Jubair narrates from Abdullah b. Abbas that I heard the lamentation from the house of Janabe Umme Salma (r.a.) – the wife of Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.), when I came out of my house I saw people heading towards the house of Janabe Umme Salma (r.a.). I went to her and inquired: ‘O Ummul Mo’mineen! Why are you so grieved? She did not reply to me and turned to the ladies of the house and asked them to mourn with her saying: Your master, the Leader of the Youths of Paradise , the son of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) is killed!’ The people asked her from where she had received this news. She replied: ‘I saw the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) in my dream and his head was covered in dust. When I asked him (s.a.w.a.) he replied, ‘My son Husain (a.s.) has been murdered. I immediately went and looked for the earth given by Jibraeel (a.s.), as I had been informed that this earth will change into blood when Husain (a.s.) is killed. I saw that there was fresh blood.’ Janabe Umme Salma (r.a.) smeared that blood on her face.
(Amaali Sheikh Toosi, vol. 1, p.322)
This is the earth of Karbala  that turns into blood grieving for Imam Husain (a.s.). 
2. Completely cured This sacred dust has benefited innumerable people. In fact, we all know how someone or the other has benefited from it. And if we compile these incidents they would surely make a voluminous book. We narrate one such incident, which has been related through reliable traditionalists. As the narration is quite lengthy we bring here a concise report. 
Muhammad Ibne Muslim (r.a.) who was among the trusted companions of Imam Muhammad Baqir (a.s.) and Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (a.s.) narrates:
‘I visited Medina at a time when my legs were paining so much that I even found it difficult to stand up. When Imam Muhammad Baqir (a.s.) was informed of my ailment, he sent his slave to me with a drink, which was covered with a kerchief. The slave asked me to drink what he had brought and told me that he was instructed by Imam (a.s.) to return only when I had finished drinking it. The drink was cold, it tasted good and had the scent of musk. When I was through with the drink, the slave told me, ‘Your master has instructed that after finishing the drink you should visit him.’ I was perplexed that I could not even get up then how was I supposed to visit Imam (a.s.). But as soon as the drink reached my stomach, my ache disappeared and I, who could not even get up, began walking with great ease and presented myself before Imam (a.s.) and asked for permission to enter. Imam (a.s.) called me in a loud voice affirming my return to good heath. I came near him crying and kissed his (a.s.) hands and forehead.
 Imam (a.s.) enquired regarding the drink he had sent. I replied, ‘I bear witness that you Ahle Bait (a.s.) are surely a mercy and that you are the successors of the vicegerents. When your slave brought that drink to me, ‘I was unable even to stand up and despaired. When I drank it, I found it to be cold and tasty and sweet-scented as no other drink. Then the slave informed me that Imam has called you. I was thinking that I will surely go even if it costs me my life. But after consuming that drink, my pain vanished. Praise is for Allah who has sent you as mercy for your Shias.  
Imam (a.s.) replied, ‘O Muhammad! The sacred dust of the holy grave of Imam Husain (a.s.) was mixed in the drink, which you had. This is the best thing for cures and nothing can be compared to this. We give our women and children this very dust and draw divine blessings.’
(Kaamil al-Ziarat, p. 275-77, tradition 7)
 From this incident we learn how much our Imams (a.s.) love us and the level of concern they have for us. Then we should be like Muhammad b. Muslim (r.a.). The effect of the dust is definitely there, provided we have the faith in it and in the one offering it to us, like Muhammad b. Muslim (r.a.) had the faith in Imam Muhammad Baqir (a.s.).  
Dust of Paradise
During the Safawide rule in Iran, a European cleric came to Isfahan (Iran) to derive evidence from the Islamic scholars about the Holy Prophet’s (s.a.w.a.) Prophethood. The cleric was very talented and had complete command over mathematics and astronomy among other sciences. He could inform people about their condition, thereby proving his ability and authority, and striking awe in the hearts of the people. One day, he requested the king to gather all the scholars of the kingdom so that he could display his many talents and faculties. As per his request all the scholars were made to assemble in the court. Among these scholars, was also present the illustrious and acclaimed scholar of the Shiite world – Muhaddis-e-Faiz Kashani (r.a.) -the compiler of several renowned works like Tafsir-e-Safi and Kitab-e-Wafi.Muhaddiss-e- Kashani (r.a.) told the European cleric, ‘Indeed, your people are foolish. They have sent an incompetent and novice like you for this great task.This task requires a multi-faceted person with a wide range of skills and talents.’
 The cleric was infuriated at this comment and began trembling in anger. He exclaimed, ‘O Islamic scholar! Speak with a little respect and etiquette. I swear by Jesus (a.s.) and his mother (s.a.), if you were aware of my enormous skills and talents you would never have rebuked me in this manner. Indeed women have not given birth to one like me. I am the epitome of skills and talents. Examine me if you want. For, it is at the time of
examination that one’s true worth is underlined.’
 Muhaddis-e-Kashani (r.a.) put his hand inside his pocket and removed his clenched fist. Then he demanded, ‘What is in my fist?’ The cleric was struck by this challenge and reflected on the question for long. He tried hard to guess the answer until the colour of his face changed in utter frustration.
 Muhaddis-e-Kashani (r.a.) remarked, ‘You have failed to answer my question. Your ignorance is now evident and the reality has unfolded.’
 The cleric exclaimed, ‘I swear by Jesus (a.s.) and his mother (s.a.), I already know what is in your clenched fist, I am only trying to guess as to how it came in your possession!’ 
Muhaddis-e-Kashani (r.a.) demanded, ‘What is in my fist?’ The cleric replied, ‘Your fist has the dust of Paradise . I am trying to figure out how you came to possess it.’  
Muhaddiss-e-Kaashshani (r.a.) tried to test him further by saying, ‘It is possible that your calculation and estimate is wrong and you are mistaken.’
The cleric stood his ground and replied, ‘No I am certain of it (dust of Paradise ). I am only confused about how you have got it.’
 Muhaddis-e-Kashani (r.a.) elaborated, ‘O cleric! I have with me the dust of Karbala . Our beloved Prophet (s.a.w.a.) informed us that Karbala is a part of Paradise . If your calculation and assessment is correct, then you should accept the truthfulness of our Prophet (s.a.w.a.) and testify your faith in him (s.a.w.a.).’  
The cleric agreed, ‘You are right!’ He immediately testified to the prophethood of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) and became a Muslim.
(Asraare Shahadat, vol. 1, p. 523-24, new edition)
 Indeed not only is Imam Husain (a.s.) the light of guidance, but everything that comes in contact with him is blessed with these powers. Now we begin to understand the words of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) There are more things to write on this topic. But brevity demands that we conclude this treatise over here. At the end we supplicate to Allah, the Almighty, to make this sacred dust of Karbala a cure for all our spiritual and physical diseases nd to grant us security from every fear. And finally to make us pure and sacred just like this dust. 


Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The Incomplete Veil



The Incomplete Veil

Some of the sisters are veiled and covered, but not completely. You will see that the (Hijab) veil is on their head but a good portion of their head is showing, or maybe the head is fully covered but the arms or ankles are showing or at least partly showing.

Of course, this kind of hijab is considered an incomplete hijab and will not do, it does not fulfill the duty. Besides it is not considered obedience to God’s orders. A situation such as the mentioned, incomplete hijab happened during the Prophets lifetime, where some of the women were covering a part of the head, leaving the rest of the head or the ears showing. The Prophet (Peace be upon him) refused and forbid it, and he ordered the complete hijab as he mentioned, “covered and yet uncovered”, both together. So how could this happen covered and uncovered at the same time. The answer: The woman thinks that she is covered but because she is leaving many parts uncovered, she will be considered uncovered by Islamic laws. As we mentioned the angels of the heaven and the skys will damn her for every step she takes.
If this woman could have hear spiritually and if her soul had an ear, then she could hear the screams and cries of the angels from every side screaming,  “God’s Damn be upon you.”  Millions, maybe billions of them damn the (Saferah) unveiled woman.

Quran Al Azeem

This behavior of the angels is not their own, as the mighty Allah said in the Holy Quran in At-Tahrim (The Prohibition) verse 6, “…They (the angels) do not disobey Allah in what he commands them they do they are commanded”.
“Damn” means to be far away from the mighty God’s mercy and being far away from happiness and joy and success. Therefore, no woman would agree to be damned from the angels of the heavens and the sky, would they? The desired or wanted Hijab is the Islamic legislated Hijab, in full cover and not the ones which are colorful where it attracts the eyes and should be far away from fashion.  Hijab is a wise law, guarantees the woman’s happiness, the cleanliness of the family, and the purity of the society.  It is a religious order and has been legislated and decreed by the mighty God, Himself.  The Quran assured it and the Prophet (P) and his family (Peace be upon them) applied it and demanded it.
Where-as the (Sofoor) unveiled women will bring unhappiness to herself, destruction to the family, and brings corruption to the society.  It is disobedience to the mighty God’s orders and it is also against wisdom and public interest.
Our last supplication is thanks to the mighty Allah and prayers be upon the Prophet Mohammed and his progeny.
الّلهمَّ صلِّ على محمَّد وآل محمَّد وعَجِّلْ فَرَجَهُم

Saturday, April 30, 2011

The Destiny of the Unveiled Woman


The Destiny of the Unveiled Woman

What is the punishment of the unveiled woman and what is her destiny?  We know that the mighty God had setup certain punishments for certain disobedience and certain forbidden commitments. There is a punishment for the ones that leave their duties. So what is the punishment for the uncovered woman and what is her torture that the mighty God had set up for the one who chooses (sofoor) to unveil and take off the hijab?

The (Sofoor) act of being unveiled will bring damnation upon the woman, put her away from Gods blessings and mercy, and push her toward the tortures, punishment, and take her toward the hellfire and humility. This is what was clearly said by His Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) as mentioned in the Hadith:
“There will come at the end of the era men among my nation, their wives are clothed yet naked and their hair on their heads is like the heads of the curved thin camels so damn them, because they are damned, they will not smell heaven, although the smell (“scent”) of heaven can be found from a distance of 500 years.”
Imam Ali (Peace be upon him) said,  “At the end of time, close to the end of the hour (hour = the time prior to the appearance of the twelfth apostal and it is to be the most corrupted time) will appear women who are dressed yet seem naked, beautiful unveiled, and far away from the religion.  They will enter into seduction, lean toward desires, hurry toward fun, they allow commiting the forbidden, so they reside in the hell fire forever.”
In another Hadith from Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) pointing to the punishment of the unveiled woman, we may pick up parts of the following Hadith as such:
Imam Ali (Peace be upon him) said:  “One day as we, Fatema and I entered to see the messenger of Allah, Mohammed (Peace be upon him) we saw him crying, heavily in tears, so I said: May my father abd mother be sacrificed for you (an expression at that time to show great love and respect for someone) what made you cry?  He (peace be upon him) answered O Ali, that night when I was ascended to the heavens, I saw the women of my nation in great torture, denying their position that they were in, I cried heavily for what I saw of their torture. The Prophet (P) started talking about what he saw the night of ascention, among what he said was,  I found a woman that was hanging by her hair with her brain boiling in her head.  Then I found another woman hanging by her tongue and melted metal was being poured down her throat.  I found another woman eating her own flesh and fire was burning and coming out of her bottom.  I found a woman whose hands were tied to her legs and snakes and scorpions were sent towards her.  Then I found a woman who was deaf, dumb, and blind in a cascade of fire with her brain pouring out of her nose and her body was cut with leprosy.  And I saw a woman whose flesh was being cut with cutters.
The lady Fatema to Zzahraa asked her father (Peace be upon them):   Tell me what was their deeds (in their lifetimes) that mighty God put them in such a consequence.

He (P) said:  “O daughter, the one that was hanging by her hair is because she was not covering her hair from men.  The one that was eating her own flesh is because she was beautifying her body for the people.
The one that her hands were tied to her legs and scorpions and snakes were sent toward her was because she was dirty in her prayer (abolution), her clothes were dirty, and she was not performimg shower abolution (Ghusul) for (Janabah) the religious shower after sex or the abolution from the menstrual cycle (monthly period) and she was taking her prayers lightly.
The deaf, dumb, and blind woman was tortured because she was commiting adultery while married and putting the child (if becoming pregnant) on her husband’s name.
The women who were being cut (her body being cut with cutters) was because she was putting her body at men’s sexual disposal.” … ending the Hadith.
In this Hadith you see an illustration of several types of torture for women who were (Saferah) unveiled.  These tortures, such as being hanged by the hair with the brain boiling, in a very painful way, fire was burning her up from her sides and limbs mean that every unveiled woman must meet this torturous painful punishment… Unless she repents and asks forgiveness, for the days of being unveiled and she decides to put on the (Hijab) veil completely, then the mighty Allah will forgive and pardon her. In the Quron the mighty God said in sorat Al-Shura (the council), verse 25 “And he it is who accepts repentance from his servants and pardons the evil deeds and he knows what you do.”

In another place in Ta Ha, verse 82, the mighty Allah said, “And surly I am most forgiving to him who repents and believes and does good then continues to follow the right direction.”
Truthful was Allah, the most high, the great.    

Thursday, April 28, 2011

What a Great Reward!!


What a Great Reward!!

make yourself a member, make yourself among the minorities to the religion of the mighty God, speak about the (Hijab) to the girls such as yourself.
Don’t refuse marriage if a man comes, just search for two important basic things which are (1) religion and (2) morals.  These two are the ways to joy and happiness for the person in the married life.  The only things that you have to search for are these two…
You shouldn’t care about his nationality or his salary or start counting the dowry that he is going to give you.  It is mentioned in the Hadith:  “A bad omen for the woman, is her expensive dowry.”#
Do not bring the excuses such as I had to finish my education, or any other invalid excuses that may bring tortuous life for you and your husband.  The mighty God may not be satisfied with such an action.
Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) said:  “If a man with two traits, (likeable to you) his morals and religion, came to you, for marriage… grant him the marriage… if you didn’t, it will be a disturbance in this land, and a great disorder.” (11)#
Marriage is the golden nest, it comforts you and makes you happy.  It is a prevention from corruption and moral deviation.
The mighty God did not create the woman to live in isolation, where she lives in solitude and loneliness.  He created her to live side by side with a husband and form a family, so the life cycle will go on, and the woman will become the mother for the next generations.
Delaying marriage is wrong and could be dangerous, so beware.  Prophet Mohammed   (Peace be upon him) said, “O ye people, to me came Gabrial from the mighty kind and experience saying:  virgins are like fruits on a tree, if they became ripe and was not harvested it becomes ruined by the Sun and wind.  The same are virgins if they reached what reaches the woman, there is no cure but marriage, otherwise there is no security from corruption because they are humans.”
Then a man stood up and said,  “To whom should we marry (O) messenger of Allah?  The prophet (Peace be upon him) answered, among the fit ones.”
The man asked,  O messenger of Allah and who are the fitted ones?”
The prophet answered: “The believers, some of them are fit for each other.” (12)#
Therefore if the one coming to ask for marriage was deviant or with ill morales such as if he did not pray or drank liquor (God forbid) or any other misconduct, then refuse him with no hesitation.  Do not be cheated by their fake words, or actions, or looks or unimportant matters such as money position, or a job… etc.
Living alone in this case is much better than marriage if there was a deviation in the man’s religion or his morals or his behavior, even if he was or had a high position.
Pray and ask the mighty God for a dignified, religious young man to ask for your hand in marriage.  Pray ask for a man that has beauty in his face, has heart and has morals, and the mighty God will answer your prayer as he said in (The Believer) Al-Moamin, verse 60,  “…Call upon me, I will answer you…”
                                    
Husbands Duties        
Husbands have responsibilities, which are very important and yet very dangerous as well. He is responsible for both his own and his wife’s behaviors and actions. The mighty God made men the upholders of women as he said in the Quron in Sorat An-Nisa (The Women), Verse 34, 
“Men are the upholders (Maintainers) of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of the property.”

Also in Sorat Al-Tahreem (The Prohibition), Verse 6, the mighty God said; “O you who believe! Save yourselves and your family a fire who’s fuel is men and stones.”
He must convince his wife to wear the (Hijab) Veil. If she is not wearing the veil, he must bring her all the necessary evidence so that she will be convinced and she will wear the (Hijab) veil fully, understanding the greatness of this Islamic law.
If he could not prove this to her or if she didn’t become convinced due to lack of evidence, then he could take her to a religious scholar so he can explain the philosophy of the Hijab and its importance. Or he could give her a book or a cassette tape discussing this subject.
Given advice to his son, Mohammed Ben Al-Hanfeya, Imam Ali (Peace be upon him) said: “To be strict about ones wife wearing hijab is better for the man and wife than to doubt her actions. Also going out is no better than you introducing them to the un-trustworthy and if you could; make them know no one but you” (13). *
In other words, do not introduce them to men, or vise versa because that may corrupt them. He shouldn’t go to mixed singing or dancing parties, put her as far away from them as possible because that will corrupt their morals; it may take their shame away; and may put her honor in danger.
The husband that calls for his wife to be (Sofoor) unveiled, or he orders her to go to cinemas or mixed parties is a traitor.  He is a disloyal man to his wife, because he is calling her to the path of deviation and corruption.  He may be the first to pay the price and see the punishment when she becomes unfaithful to him.  Among many, she may have an illegal affair with another man.
He should be distanced and as far away from the house of corruption as possible, so he can live peacefully, and live within God’s boundaries, where there is peace and tranquility.  They should live with God’s rules, be careful from any form of deviation.  They should pay attention and know that because women are emotional and as a sweet basil she may ask or demand what could be against God’s wishes.  At this point he should explain to her and make her forget about what she asked for.  He should not obey her when it conflicts with God’s obedience or God’s regulations, because the Hadith said, “there should be no obedience to any creature when it conflicts with the creator’s disobedience.”#
Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) said, “Whoever obeys his wife, God throws him in the hell fires on his face.”  They asked: what is this obedience?  He (Peace be upon him) said:  “asking him to go to swimming pools, showers, parties and wear the thin clothes.” (14)#
So the husband should not allow his wife to go to swimming pools where she may be seen or mixed parties, theatres or cinemas.  He should not allow her to wear thin clothes in front of “foreign men”.  Because it may bring corruption and God does not permit that.
He is also supposed to be jealous for his wife and family, the virtue of jealousy will become a powerful inner feeling that prevents many atrocities.  If a man doesn’t have jealousy toward his wife (that means if another person looked at his wife or family an evil look, he will not be moved) he will not prevent what may come .  The other person may be encouraged into more flirtatious acts, and may cause a disaster.  If a person was jealous for his family and wife, he will be upset from the first “wrong look” at his wife, his daughter, or sister, and he will prevent further action by the person who is looking the look of sin.  That is why Imam Jafar As-Sadeq (Peace be upon him) said,  “The mighty God likes every person who is jealous for his family and because the mighty he is jealous, he forbid the bad deeds, whether public or secret.” (15)#
Jealousy may have more than one meaning, the meaning being used here is the person who is protective of his family and prevents others from reaching his family, or acting toward them with bad manners.
  Because of jealousy, he forbids corruption, whether it is obvious or if it is hidden.  Therefore, a person should have this virtue and he should nourish it also so that it could grow in the right way.  Because this trait will save his family and daughters and prevent them from deviation, and (Sofoor) unveiling, will bring evil towards them, as well as bringing the mighty God’s anger upon him and them.  Imam As-Sadeq (Peace be upon him) said:  “Paradise is forbidden to be entered by the (Deyowth) Un jealous.”
Deyowth- Not jealous, the one who is apathetic about his family, he doesn’t care if she beautifies herself for other men and goes unveiled outside and he doesn’t order her to put on (Hijab) veil.
Also Imam As-Sadeq (P) said in another Hadith,  “Three kind of people will not be looked at by the mighty God on Judgment Day, they will not be (Zaakat) blessed and they will have a great painful torture.”#
1-An old man who commits adultery
2-(Al-Deyowth)-explained previously
3-The woman who allows other men in her bed.” (16)#

Also it is this trait of jealousy that he will not allow his wife to go out with make up, and perfume, because that will put her honor in danger.  It also puts his position in the society in jeopardy and has a disastrous ending.
Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) said, “Any man who knows and allows his wife to beautify herself and go out is (deywoth)… A woman, if she went out the houses door, beautified, perfumed, unveiled and her is in agreement, for every step that she takes a house will be built in the hell fire for her husband” (17). *
Prophet Mohammed (Pbuh) also said in another Hadith,  “Ten categories of my nation will not enter heaven unless they repent, and among them was (Al-Deyowth).”
A person asked, what is (Al-Deyowth)? He (Peace be upon him) said:  “The one who does not feel jealousy for his family.”
On many occasions I have seen a man sitting in a restaurant eating with his wife without caring about her clothes or she caring about her veil.
You will probably see many of these in any park or public places, as a matter of fact, a restaurant’s manager told me once:  “Some people refuse sitting and eating in the section specified for families in the restaurant and prefer sitting in the general area.”
Summon to you I say where is your jealousy?
It is recommended that an honorable husband should teach his wife Soorat An-Noor (The Light) and it’s explanation, because it has many verses related to the woman, she should know then so she can apply them in her life and live in decency and purity.  Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) said:  “Teach them (your wives) Soorat An-Noor (The Light) it has many advises.